SPIRIT FILLED
MARRIAGE COUNSELING
Biblically based
Coaching & Counseling for Your Marriage
Accepting New Clients
Before Established
Confused, angry, frustrated, abandoned, betrayed, vengeful, resentful, chaotic, cycling, co-dependent, out-of-order, isolated, spiritually blind.
With Established
Clear, sober-minded, hopeful, restored, understanding, confident, prayerful, sharpened, refined, equipped, growing, healing, maturing.
Established Family Coaching
For Individual Spouses
Navigating marriage struggles alone can feel overwhelming, but restoration starts with you. This coaching helps you break free from spiritual strongholds, heal emotional wounds, and gain clarity in your next steps. Discover how to stand in faith, overcome unhealthy patterns, and realign with God’s design for marriage.
Find hope and wisdom through biblical principles, strategic coaching, and practical application. Whether you are seeking healing, standing for restoration, or discerning God’s direction, you will be equipped with the tools to move forward with confidence and peace.
Book Individual SessionSpiritual Alignment
- Deepen faith foundation
- Break spiritual strongholds
- Renew your mind
- Overcome generational patterns
- Strengthen discernment
Marriage Restoration
- Understand God’s design
- Shift unhealthy patterns
- Navigate separation wisely
- Rebuild trust biblically
- Break unhealthy cycles
Emotional Healing
- Heal from betrayal
- Overcome fear & anxiety
- Release resentment
- Restore self-worth
- Rebuild identity in Christ
Practical Guidance
- Strategic communication tools
- Healthy boundaries & respect
- Praying for your spouse
- Discerning reconciliation steps
- Standing with wisdom
Established Family Coaching
For Couples Together
Marriage isn’t just about staying together—it’s about growing together. If you and your spouse are struggling with communication, trust, or unity, this coaching will help you break destructive cycles and build a strong, Christ-centered foundation. Gain clarity, deepen intimacy, and restore alignment in your relationship.
Through biblical truth, targeted strategies, and Spirit-led guidance, you will learn how to navigate conflict, strengthen connection, and rebuild trust. No matter where you are in your journey, transformation is possible when both hearts are willing to align with God.
Book Couples SessionSpiritual Foundation
- God-centered marriage vision
- Break generational cycles
- Pray together effectively
- Establish spiritual leadership
- Remove spiritual blockages
Healing & Restoration
- Forgive & rebuild trust
- Overcome past betrayals
- Address unspoken hurts
- Restore intimacy biblically
- Strengthen marital unity
Communication & Connection
- Speaking with understanding
- Heal past misunderstandings
- Navigate difficult conversations
- Eliminate destructive cycles
- Build emotional intimacy
Practical Strategies
- Daily habits for connection
- Conflict resolution skills
- Roles & responsibilities clarity
- Navigating blended families
- Financial unity & stewardship
Established Family Coaching
1-3 Day In-Person Intensives
Some breakthroughs require more than just prayer—they require action. Our in-person intensives provide an immersive experience designed for deep healing, deliverance, and marital restoration. Walk through personalized coaching, live prayer, and hands-on exercises to break cycles and restore unity.
This is for individuals or couples seeking accelerated transformation. Through deep biblical insight, prophetic wisdom, and practical application, you’ll gain clarity, healing, and breakthrough in a powerful, life-changing way.
Book Your IntensiveHealing & Deliverance
- Identify hidden strongholds
- Renounce spiritual oppression
- Walk in true freedom
- Break ungodly soul ties
- Establish kingdom authority
Marriage Breakthrough
- Disrupt toxic patterns
- Realign with God’s order
- Heal relational wounds
- Create new marital vision
- Restore spiritual intimacy
Inner Healing
- Release deep-rooted pain
- Heal from rejection
- Break trauma cycles
- Overcome spiritual weariness
- Restore emotional stability
Tactical Application
- Live coaching & activation
- Personalized breakthrough plan
- Strategic next steps
- Marriage-building exercises
- On-site prayer & intercession
Established Family Coaching
For Premarital Couples
Marriage is more than a commitment—it’s a covenant. Preparing for a godly marriage starts with the right foundation. This coaching equips engaged or seriously dating couples with biblical wisdom, communication strategies, and practical tools to build a marriage that lasts.
Learn how to navigate differences, set healthy expectations, and cultivate a Christ-centered relationship. Avoid common pitfalls and enter marriage with clarity, purpose, and the confidence that you are walking in alignment with God’s design.
*Coming Soon*Biblical Marriage Blueprint
- Understanding covenant marriage
- God’s roles for husband & wife
- Building spiritual intimacy
- Align with kingdom purpose
- Establish healthy expectations
Marriage Readiness
- Overcome past baggage
- Address family & in-law dynamics
- Financial stewardship principles
- Establish household leadership
- Build a shared vision
Communication & Connection
- Master conflict resolution
- Strengthen emotional connection
- Navigate differences biblically
- Develop trust & transparency
- Break unhealthy patterns
Practical Preparation
- Decision-making alignment
- Daily habits for unity
- Preparing for spiritual warfare
- Maintaining healthy boundaries
- Crafting a Christ-centered future
How it Works
Step 1: Book Your Call
You don’t have to figure this out alone.
Once you register for your coaching program, you’ll be able to choose from our available coaches and get immediate access to their calendar to start scheduling your sessions. Whether you’re in a crisis, growing apart in your marriage, or simply hungry to understand sonship, daughtership, and what it means to build a marriage that glorifies the Lord—we’re here to begin.
Step 2: Meet With Your Counselor or Coach
When your scheduled time arrives, you’ll meet with a Spirit-led counselor or coach, trained to walk with you through real healing, deliverance and restoration. This is not a casual conversation or a 5-step program. This is a time set apart for the Lord, to begin to see the hooks of the enemy at play and finally confront the strongholds that have been holding you back.
Remember: you are a bloodline breaker, and the curse stops here with you.
Step 3: Follow Your Map of Transformation
Whether you book one session or multiple, you won’t leave guessing what to do next. You’ll walk away with a personalized Map of Transformation—giving you clear steps to continue the work, break cycles, and grow in spiritual maturity long after the session ends.
Step 4: Keep Walking in Truth
Breakthrough doesn’t end when the session does. Whether God brings full restoration in one moment or over time, you’ll have the tools, support, and spiritual direction to keep going. We offer continued coaching, resources, and intensives for those ready to go deeper. No matter where you are in the process of marriage restoration, you won’t be walking alone.
Our Counseling & Coaching Approach
If we JUST focus on "frameworks"...
If we JUST focus on frameworks, accountability, and behavior modification, we risk reducing the process to mere checklists and routines. This can lead to a legalistic approach where the heart and deeper motivations are neglected, and the emphasis is on whether the “box is checked” rather than true transformation.
If we JUST focus on "our past"...
If we JUST focus on the past, such as childhood and history, we may overlook the present work of God and His plans for the future. This narrow focus can trap people in a cycle of revisiting old wounds without moving forward, leading to stagnation and apathy.
If we JUST focus on "spiritual encounters"...
If we JUST focus on seeking spiritual encounters, such as deliverance, healing or breakthrough, we may use these as a crutch, shifting blame to external forces like the devil while neglecting the need for personal responsibility, character development, and the building of a strong moral foundation.
Counseling & Coaching Payment Options
Programs designed for lasting marital breakthrough that doesn't keep you stuck in endless cycles of counseling.
Breakthrough Session
Perfect for individual spouses who are looking for edification, equipping, peace of mind during restoration.
$197
/ session ($247 for couples)
Session Includes:
- Situation Summary
- One, 60 Minute Session
- 25 Page Map of Transformation
Priority Scheduling AccessOff Session CommunicationThe Marriage Academy
4-Week Program
Designed for couples who want to address the core issues preventing the marriage from true growth.
$897
/ program
Program Includes:
- Situation Summary
- Four, 60 Minute Sessions
- 25 Page Map of Transformation
- Priority Scheduling Access
Off Session CommunicationThe Marriage Academy
8-Week Program
Best Value
Build for lasting change in the marriage that is sustainable and repositions the marriage for unity, growth and Kingdom mission.
$1,497
/ program
Program Includes:
- Situation Summary
- Eight, 60 Minute Sessions
- 25 Page Map of Transformation
- Priority Scheduling Access
- Off Session Communication
- The Marriage Academy
- 20% Loyalty Discount on Future Sessions
In-Person Marriage Intensives
Experience an immersive, in-person marriage intensive designed to uncover root issues, facilitate healing and deliverance, and help restore God's design for your marriage.
One Day Intensive
One-day private marriage intensive—two 3-hour sessions designed to address, confront, heal, deliver, and equip the most pressing concerns impacting your marriage.
$2,950
Two Day Intensive
Two-day private marriage intensive—four 3-hour sessions designed to uncover root issues, facilitate healing and deliverance, restore communication, and establish a practical roadmap for lasting transformation.
$5,000
Three Day Intensive
Three-day private marriage intensive—five 3-hour sessions designed to bring deep healing, deliverance, restoration, vision, activation, and accountability for couples ready to rebuild their marriage from the ground up.
$7,500
Are there more plans?
Yes—additional coaching and intensive options are available.
Reach out to us directly at team@establishedfamily.com.
Plan Discounts
We offer flexible payment plans through Afterpay & Klarna.
Choose your terms at checkout using their secure portals.
Meet the Lead Counseling Team
Established Family has in-network and out-of-network providers. Meet our lead in-network team!
Derek Palizay is the Co-Founder of Established Family International, creator of TheoPsychology™, and one of the leading voices in marriage restoration, discipleship, and biblical family transformation. Through his teachings, programs, counseling framework, and media platforms, Derek has helped reach hundreds of millions of individuals, spouses, and families around the world with a message of hope, restoration, and the transformative power of the Gospel.
Alongside his wife Jordan, Derek has personally conducted more than 1,000 marriage restoration sessions, helping couples navigate crisis, separation, infidelity, addiction, spiritual strongholds, and family breakdown. His work has become known for integrating biblical discipleship, practical application, and Spirit-led ministry into a framework that addresses the restoration of the spirit, soul, and body.
As the creator of TheoPsychology™, Derek has helped equip a growing network of counselors, therapists, coaches, pastors, and ministry leaders with a biblically grounded approach to marriage restoration and family health. Today, his teachings, resources, and programs are used by tens of thousands of individuals and, now, practitioners seeking a gospel-centered alternative to conventional counseling models.
Derek serves as Lead Overseer of Established Family Trusted, overseeing provider standards, theological alignment, certification, and the continued expansion of a global network committed to restoring marriages and strengthening families through the power of Jesus Christ.
Jordan Palizay is Co-Founder of Established Family International. She is Director of Operations, and one of the primary leaders behind the client experience, coaching systems, and restoration framework that have helped impact hundreds of thousands of marriages and families worldwide.
Alongside her husband Derek, Jordan has personally conducted more than 1,000 marriage restoration sessions and has spent years walking with individuals and couples through some of the most difficult seasons of their lives. Her unique ability to combine compassion, discernment, practical wisdom, and biblical truth has made her a trusted voice among wives, mothers, and families pursuing healing and restoration.
Jordan plays a central role in developing and implementing the systems, activations, training pathways, and discipleship processes that support clients, providers, churches, and ministries throughout the Established Family ecosystem. She is also actively involved in provider development, onboarding, certification, and network oversight within Established Family Trusted.
As a practitioner of TheoPsychology™ and a passionate advocate for God’s design for marriage and family, Jordan is committed to helping individuals move beyond survival and into lasting transformation through discipleship, accountability, and dependence upon the Holy Spirit.
Dr. Jan McKee is a Licensed Pastoral Counselor through the National Christian Counselors Association (NCCA), certified Clinical Supervisor, and trusted voice in marriage restoration, discipleship, and biblical counseling. She holds a Master’s Degree in Clinical Pastoral Counseling and a Ph.D. in Theology, and has spent years helping individuals, couples, and families experience lasting transformation through the power of the Gospel.
In addition to serving clients, Jan spent many years training and equipping future counselors as an instructor within the NCCA, helping raise up the next generation of Christian counseling leaders. She is also certified in Marital TheoPsychology™ through Established Family and serves as one of the lead counseling voices within the Established Family Trusted network.
Jan is passionate about helping people move beyond symptom management and into genuine restoration of the spirit, soul, and body. Her approach combines biblical discipleship, practical wisdom, marriage restoration principles, and dependence upon the work of the Holy Spirit to help individuals and families find freedom, healing, and renewed purpose.
With decades of ministry experience, a deep commitment to Scripture, and a heart for strengthening marriages and families, Jan is trusted by clients and ministry leaders alike as a counselor, mentor, teacher, and advocate for God’s design for the family.
Alex McDurmont, LMFT is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Marital and Family TheoPsychology™ Practitioner, Established Family Certified Coach, and Established Family Trusted Provider. With more than a decade of experience helping individuals, couples, and families navigate emotional wounds, relational challenges, and life transitions, Alex is passionate about helping people experience lasting transformation through both practical tools and biblical truth.
Alex specializes in helping individuals and families identify unhealthy patterns, strengthen communication, process emotional pain, and develop healthier relationships. Her counseling approach is known for being warm, compassionate, and strengths-based while creating a safe environment for growth, healing, and restoration.
At Established Family, Alex works closely with wives and couples, helping them gain spiritual clarity, emotional resilience, and practical next steps as they pursue restoration in their marriage and family. Through her training in Marital and Family TheoPsychology™, Alex approaches healing through the restoration of the spirit, soul, and body while helping individuals and families partner with God’s design for lasting transformation.
Alex combines clinical experience, biblical discipleship, and a deep reliance on the work of the Holy Spirit to help individuals and families move beyond survival and into wholeness. Her heart is to see marriages strengthened, families restored, and people empowered to walk in freedom, healing, and purpose.
Pastor Brandon preaches and teaches the uncompromised Word of God, with a prophetic edge. He loves to motivate and equip believers to dream big and fulfill their God given purpose in the earth. His heart is to serve and to see others encounter Jesus. Brandon is husband to Kelly, and wonderful father of 3 children, Brandon II, Isaiah, and Danielle.