Extraordinary marriages are built intentionally.

After walking with thousands of couples, we noticed something.

Success in one area of life does not guarantee health in another. We've walked with married business owners, executives, professional athletes, ministry leaders, public figures, and couples who outwardly appeared to have everything together. Yet behind closed doors, many were carrying years of unresolved conflict, broken trust, emotional distance, disappointment, and pain.

Lasting Change Requires Time

The reality is that most couples were never taught how to build a thriving marriage. They were taught how to build careers, businesses, wealth, and influence. Yet very few were ever shown how to build a healthy marriage capable of withstanding the pressures, responsibilities, disappointments, and seasons that life inevitably brings. Twelve Together was created for couples who have reached a simple conclusion:

what got us here won’t get us where we want to go.

Twelve Together exists for couples who refuse to leave their marriage to chance. Through private advisory, intentional marital strategy, and meaningful connection, we help you build a marriage worth celebrating today and a generational legacy worth passing down tomorrow.

Establish the Vision

A two-day private, immersive experience to establish healing, breakthrough, vision, uncover blind spots, and create your roadmap for the year ahead.

On-Going Guidance

Monthly advisory in private sessions designed to provide guidance, accountability, and wisdom as life and marriage unfolds.

Direct Access

Direct text messaging access, voice messaging, and calls for guidance during critical moments and important decisions throughout the year.

Mid Year Intensive

Get together with Derek & Jordan for a mid year, 1-day intensive to do a marriage systems check-in.

All Access Resources

The Marriage Academy, private community and all of Established Family Resources are yours to support the marriage.

Celebration What You’ve Built

We will fly to you and host a private dinner to celebrate your twelve months together, your new marriage and your life ahead.

Your Marriage Advisors

Derek & Jordan Palizay

Over the last decade, Derek and Jordan have walked with thousands of couples through every season of marriage. Some arrived carrying the weight of conflict, betrayal, disappointment, or years of disconnection. Others came seeking clarity, renewed vision, stronger communication, healthier rhythms, and a deeper sense of purpose for the future they were building together.

What they have learned is simple: no season of marriage has the authority to disqualify you from the life, marriage, and legacy God intended for you. While breakthrough can happen in a moment, lasting transformation requires intentional growth, guidance, and support over time.

Today, Derek and Jordan help couples move beyond simply reacting to the challenges of marriage and instead begin building it with purpose. Whether healing from the past or creating a stronger future, Twelve Together provides the space, strategy, and support to help couples pursue what is possible.